I think it’d be best to be honest with him cus that’ll get rid of your mental baggage and his insecurities, though of course that’s very hard for a lot of ppl and not very helpful. And well, he seems to be willing to go through this for you and you too, so that sounds like a good relationship, and he chose you over whoever that someone is. Or just tell him that you care for him but you’re insecure too, so the reasons
That sounds like a Bl Manga I read once.. It's one of my favs.
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/chiya_s_just_an_unstable_guy/
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As a 19 year old Virgin I have no advice I could give you but when it comes to being shy I can relate..
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My ex and I dated for about 1 year and within that year I probably said only 20 sentences to him. I Can't communicate worth a crap. Whenever we was together I'd text him instead of talking.. he'd always touch me in ways I wasn't ready for and I was too shy to say NO.. The perv couldn't even keep his hands to himself in the middle of freaking Walmart.. Long story short.. Me never talking started to cause a few issues and we ended up having a ugly break up.┗( T﹏T )┛ I just blame that on falling for a crappy guy.
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I hope you get the answers you need and live a long happyyyy lifeee I also didnt want this post to be negative.. I just wanted to share my experience with being shy..
I'm sorry you have to go through it.
ITS SUCKS....
Thanks for the advice
We did talk about it a little bit I wasn't as honest nvm I was honest but I guess I just had a blackout and left out pretty important things.. I'll talk to him about it again
I'm sooo sorry you had to go through this.. I hope you'll find someone that understands you and will help you instead of force things on you
Ok so I'm sorry for posting this here but this is the only place that I can do it and I just needed to talk about it...
Me and my bf have been together now for half a year but had something going on for longer. But I'm a very shy person and am used to be very silent and don't show affection (I just can't show it whether I like something or not even though I do) and he told me that he's very unsure whether I enjoy what he does or not. He's always the one that kisses me first or starts sex. He's so insecure about that and I'm soo sorry for that. I really want to innitiate everything, but like I just can't. I'm trying it soo hard and I'm getting a little better but there's still this blockade within me...
I think it's my insecurity. I just can't see what he likes in me and am always so scared that he will find someone better than me. And idk...
Does anyone have any tips for me? I would be very gratefull...
OH and sorry for the broken English it's not my mother tongue..