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Understandably so. But you know, for someone who loved so deeply yet none was returned, sometimes, cementing their hearts to the point where it becomes so hard to even feel any more care or hurt is their way of dealing with the pain, and preventing it to ever happen again.
I know I should’ve just said defence mechanism but I wanna be poetic for once lol.
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Please enlighten me more. So, why does he avoid seme? Because he!s reminded of the pain of the past and everything he needs to put through to get by? Like when he said that he ‘wasted’ his college life blindly following his first love?
I hated when the seme invalidated the uke’s feeling but Im still auite confused at how of a big issue it turned for the both of them.
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Maybe the uke still affected by the past. And some people really having a hard time to move on. And to me maybe. The uke is someone who has huge insecurity and easily swayed by his emotion (I guess) so when he found out his current lover is his old crush ex lover he found it hard to Idk.. English not my first language so it's hard to explain.
Can someone expound the uke’s argument?
Is it because the seme is the one who made him realize that his first love should end? I mean, i quite don’t get his point as well, ‘quite’.
Is it like “you are the reason i got hurt and decided to end my first love?”
But still, why blame(?) seme when seme doesn’t even know he exists before?