Can someone expound the uke’s argument? Is it because the seme is the one who made him...

I mean i’d understand if its jealousy, or afraid of the moments seme and first love shared, but its not. More like trauma of being broekn hearted? But still, why blame seme? Argh sorry. Im not trying to be insensitive, i”m tryin’ so hard to understand and relate

Understandably so. But you know, for someone who loved so deeply yet none was returned, sometimes, cementing their hearts to the point where it becomes so hard to even feel any more care or hurt is their way of dealing with the pain, and preventing it to ever happen again.



I know I should’ve just said defence mechanism but I wanna be poetic for once lol.

I don't think he blame the seme. It's more like insecurity that he got after got broken heart once. And he scared. This thing happen often.

Please enlighten me more. So, why does he avoid seme? Because he!s reminded of the pain of the past and everything he needs to put through to get by? Like when he said that he ‘wasted’ his college life blindly following his first love?

I hated when the seme invalidated the uke’s feeling but Im still auite confused at how of a big issue it turned for the both of them.

Defense mechanism from? Getting hurt? But he knows the the love is reciprocated this time, no?

Idk if i’m insensitive or im just dense (づ￣ ³￣)づ im tryin’ my best to understand where he’s coming from.

But i think seme properly conveys that he loves him. So it is reciprocated. What i understood from the panels was a repeated “you were the lover of my first love when i decided to stop my feelings”. I mean i think i know that it hurts but i can’t put into words why it should hurt (づ￣ ³￣)づ(╯°Д °)╯╧╧

Maybe the uke still affected by the past. And some people really having a hard time to move on. And to me maybe. The uke is someone who has huge insecurity and easily swayed by his emotion (I guess) so when he found out his current lover is his old crush ex lover he found it hard to Idk.. English not my first language so it's hard to explain.

I very much appreciate your insights. Thank youuuu!

Ur Welcome (=・ω・=)