This!!! I was raised to believe that showing emotion was weak and unnecessary and that other people deserved it more than me, so in a sense it is relatable. Relatable in a sense than now that I have grown, I find it hard to show emotion and at times I even push it away. Pushing away emotions can often unintentionally hurts others and I have come to realize that. I used to find emotional people annoying and “doing too much” which I still partially believe to this day. I can’t help that and neither can they. There’s just different kinds of people, and not everyone understands that:/
I totally relate. Though it was not like something I was taught more like I was born like this. I take after my father. We both have this kind of personality that makes unapproachable and cold. My mother is completely opposite though.
Two different ppl can exist if they just understand each other. People are different so it's better not to push your ideals on another.
Thanks for the reply though. Good to see I am not alone.
but I kinda relate to the section chief more.
for me, I tend to stray away from emotional troubles so people around me say i am too emotionally detached. I tend to concentrate more on the practicality which comes off cold and harsh, I know this is my fault but it is hard to change.
i find people like seunghyun who are sensitive and high eq difficult to deal with. as much as they are appealing because they can express themselves dealing with them is difficult. empathizing itself is pretty hard for me.
i was a bit frustrated at myself for a while but i came to accept it.
there are just different kind of people in the world.