stuff that wasn’t my cup of tea okay so turns out i’m just not into short angry masculine tops with cool and calm bottoms, i don’t know why, it’s not a fucking gender role thing, it’s just that specific dynamic that makes me miserable, i feel like legitimately suicidal which means it probably connects with my trauma somehow? :/ anyways, this list makes me want to cry :| and i will say it now, masc bottoms, fem tops, consent, and lovey dovey sweet stuff is the fucking besttttt
