I have noticed that although most yaoi are read by women, there is a lot of hate directed at women in yaoi manga, or hate coming from fans who are mostly women themselves.
Moreover some yaoi portray women as these evil creatures or the barrier that separate the male couple from being together.
I realize yaoi is about boy love, but at the same time we shouldn't teach young girls to hate their own sex. So as a women myself, this is a list about normal or non-evil women in yaoi.