The FL we need

FL abandoned by her lover and assassinated by him, comes back to life several times trying different ways to live. In the 8th life, she uses the knowledge of the future to help herself enact revenge.

FL died as the king's concubine (framed by the queen). She awakens and does try to become the concubine again but ML offers her a different path - one where she can lead her own life

FL is a god and had her robes stolen so her powers were null. She kills the woodcutter instead of 'marrying him' as she finds it disgraceful and disgusting. She has lived for thousands of years and so has gradually gotten madder and has lost her love of humans

FL has always been sheltered and spoiled that she hardly does anything herself or goes out. After trouble is brewing with the imperial family, her mother sends her away to toughen her up and keep her safe. After stepping out, she learns to do more stuff on her own, socialises, and gets to see more of the world

FL is handed a piece of land as her gift from her granddad. She's been dreaming of having a farm to herself since she was with her aunt on her farm. Thing is she didn't know this piece of land was right next to the emperor's palace and he and his men try to chase her away (thinking this is all a ruse to sell her land at an astronomical price) but gets seduced by her cooking and loveliness

FL arranged with a foreign marriage for her brother's throne (her mother made her do it). FL tried to help out those in need in the country and shape it better even when annoyed by her selfish and childish husband - he has a mistress yet says he loves her even after belittling her and trying to force her to accept his affections (ew). ML is her escort when she went to the country and was like her safe haven.