This list is, obviously, in progress. It's really for my own reference, but perhaps if you have tastes similar to mine, you'll get some use out of it.
Typical criteria:
* No rape to love * No "it's okay if it's you" * Solid or interesting plot * Complex characters * Beautiful art * Happy (or at least satisfying) endings
I also have a thing for violence, drama, action, the supernatural, etc. Slowly updating.