it's really hard to find good, consensual BDSM in yaoi, so here's my list! i'll only include works where the main couple are consenting adults, but i will trigger if there's outside assault (unfortunately hard to avoid) and i will NOT include anything with rape.
i'll include kinks and content warnings for each manga (WIP)
also if you can’t tell big beefy men getting topped is my favorite so expect quite a bit of that
1-18 are full mangas, 19-22 are webtoons/manwha, the rest are one shots
