Part II of the list may be found here:
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/389338/If you want to read yaoi manga without having to slog through a rape scene or a story centered around dubious consent, then this is the list for you.
This is a collection of all the yaoi/shonen ai manga I have read (good, bad, and mediocre) that have no rape or dubious consent.
Not a rec list, but a list designed for those who are either leery of the genre or burnt out from all the non-consensual sex.