if i had to guess, here are the things i require 1) consent 2) real chemistry (it cant feel one sided or vague) 3) interesting/developed characters (i have to like them, but not just 'cause theyre nice' but cause i actaully care for them) 4) interesting plot 5) mostly realistic (no wacky ahh plot convenience) 6) in depth problems/ issues (not just simple/ silly stuff)