timid or just quiet
apologizes for it even tho she doesn't need to
women expected to be married and not object
a she isn't grown and b his is saying it doesn't matter that she is hurting
isn't even caring abt it
he says he cares, but he isn't. he doesn't have to give up stuff 4 younger siblings karina is young
she has been socialized to minimize herself
minimizing self- also note, her older brother doesn't have to do this even though he is an older sib
expectations on daughters
the internalized misogyny
